What I Learned at My 50th High School Reunion

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I told myself I would not attend any High School reunions unless it was my 50th and here it was!

Walking into your 50th high school reunion is like stepping into a time machine. Flash forward 50 years and the hair is grayer (or gone), the fashion is more forgiving, and the music is now considered "classic." And yet—somehow, magically—it all feels wonderfully familiar.

Let me tell you what I learned.

People Change... But Stay the Same

We’ve traded class schedules for retirement plans and yearbooks for grandkid photos. But the heart of who we are? Still intact. That class clown? Still hilarious. The quiet girl? Still deep and thoughtful. The cheerleader? Still radiant, now with reading glasses and a killer AARP discount.

Sure, we’ve all grown. But underneath the wrinkles, braces (again), and orthopedic shoes, we’re still the kids who passed notes, skipped gym, and bonded over cafeteria pizza and peanut butter cookies.

Smiles Are People’s Signatures

Hairlines fade, waistlines shift, but a smile—a genuine, warm, familiar smile—remains untouched by time. I recognized people not by their names (thank goodness for our senior pics on the name tags!) but by the crinkle of their eyes and the tilt of their grin. Some things never change.

We're All Older, But Some Are Younger

Technically, we’re all the same age. But in the room, it was clear: aging is a mindset. Some danced on a square tile like they were at the prom. Others happily claimed a corner seat and swapped stories. Some ran marathons; others ran to the buffet line. And some did both—with flair.

And Then There Was the Hustle.

I decided to teach the Hustle line dance—because what's a reunion without a little disco flair? The music started, the energy was high... and suddenly, a wave of "bad knees" swept the room. Whether real or feigned (you know who you are!), there was a suspicious amount of dramatic groaning and strategic sitting. Still, those who joined in did so with gusto, and those who didn't? Well, they were excellent cheerleaders. Turns out, participation is optional, but enthusiasm is forever.

We’re Wiser. Mostly.

Gone are the high school dramas (thank heavens). In their place? Real stories. Life. Love. Loss. Grandkids, caregiving, retirement, reinvention. We talked cholesterol more than cliques, investments more than insecurities. And we toasted to simply being here.

You Can Go Home Again—Because You Left

There’s a magic in coming back—when you’ve had time to grow, live, leave, and love. Walking the familiar halls or neighborhoods stirred memories, yes. But the beauty wasn’t in what stayed the same. It was in knowing we’d returned, changed, and grateful.

Common Ground is the Glue

We all took different paths—doctors, teachers, artists, parents, dreamers. But for one night, we were all in the same boat again. No one cared what you did or where you lived. We just cared that you showed up. That we remembered.

Crushes Still Happen

Yes, the heart still flutters. A wink from an old flame. A confession of a high school crush never revealed. Some sparks rekindled. Some new ones sparked—over shared memories, dance moves, or just a mutual love of the Bills!. Who says romance stops at 68?

Some Seats Were Empty—But Never Forgotten

We laughed. We danced. But we also paused. Honored. Remembered. The classmates who couldn’t be with us were present in every story, every toast, every moment of silence. Their absence was real. So was their lasting presence.

In the End

Life has a funny way of circling back. Of bringing us together to remember, reconnect, and rediscover parts of ourselves. The hairstyles may have changed (thank goodness), and the class ring might not fit anymore—but the heart remembers.

So here’s to 50 years of growing up, growing older, and never outgrowing each other.

And hey—save me a seat at the 60th.

So, What Did I Learn?

That time is both a trickster and a teacher. That we are all still writing our stories. That laughter, connection, and shared history are ageless. And that going back doesn’t mean staying back—it means remembering who we were and appreciating who we’ve become.

Still smiling and dancing,

MaryAnn